Normal consumer behaviour seen as theft by some store employees

At least I felt like I was being treated as though I were about to steal something.

I go to office supply stores quite a lot. Especially at the end of the summer when the new school supply products are out. I like checking out the new stuff, especially since a lot of it doesn’t make it into regular inventory at the store. I’ve told most of my friends that I am a visual shopper. What I mean by that is that I go into a store sometimes just to look and other times with an overall idea about what I want but not specific. As far as specific products, I’ll know what I want when I see it. That may require looking at every product like what I am seeking in a store and not buying anything, which often happens. I have gone to stores and then ended up buying whatever it is online.

When I am in stores I generally don’t approach store employees unless I actually have a question. Eventually, if I stay long enough one of them will ask the question. The question is usually one of: ‘Are you finding everything okay?’ ‘Is there anything in particular you’re looking for?’ or ‘Can I help you find something?’ Now a lot of the time after I say ‘No, I am just looking’ or ‘No, I’m just looking at X’ the stockers and clerks will let me look at the merchandise and pick out something or not. If I don’t find what I’m looking for I leave. The point is, they leave me alone and let me shop. Other times, for most of the time I am there someone is asking me every 10 minutes or so if I’m okay or if I’m finding everything okay. I go by the two question rule. You ask me once how I’m doing. I will respond. You ask me a second time and I’ll respond and start heading for the door.

I understand you’re doing your job, but regardless, how does the fact that I was in your store, picked up a few items and put them back, didn’t buy anything and left constitute stealing or intending to steal? And even if you don’t think I am intending on pinching merchandise, your multiple questions make me feel like if I’m not spending money that day I’m not wanted in your store. If that’s the case, remember you have competitors.

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3 Responses to “Normal consumer behaviour seen as theft by some store employees”

Red Wolf July 14th, 2006 at 19:42

Considering also I have an office supply fetish, the same behaviour annoys me too. I do like your two question rule, I think I’ll have to implement that myself.

Had an interesting encounter with profiling from the purported security monkeys at Sydney’s Domestic terminal last week. Our entire Sydney office was sent to Melbourne for three days and we hit the airport in small groups over a couple of hours.

Only two of us got singled out for the explosives residue testing; the chick with the dreadlocks and the gay man. Nevermind the the businessman in the expensive suit with a laptop case that’s just the right size for a bomb. No, we’ll just pick on someone who disturbs our own personal prejudices.

I fronted them about profiling and they didn’t know what to do. Arseholes. Melbourne airport was so much more user-friendly than Sydney.

Melanie July 15th, 2006 at 00:48

I used to work in an office store and a lot of those people work on base plus commission. I.e. – if they find out that you’re buying a computer and they can upsell you a printer, some ink and some paper, more money for them.

So, that might be why you’re getting them flocking to you like buzzards or used car salesmen. At least some of the time, I’m sure.

Lala July 16th, 2006 at 01:29

Raymond – maybe they think you’re just shy about asking for help. I mean, you are a man after all! Or perhaps they think you’re cute and they’re hitting on you?? Mind you, I don’t usually make it past question two either…

By the way – not sure about the Sydney profiling – I generally get stopped everytime on my way through and I don’t have dredlocks and I’m not gay, I’m just your average white female…. but then again, maybe my definition of average isn’t everyone else’s….

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